2)In Your Dreamhost, where you see Extra Security, turn this off.
3)Get FFmpeg. usually dreamhost has most of the standard modules needed to compile and comes with subversion.
svn checkout svn://svn.mplayerhq.hu/ffmpeg/trunk ffmpeg
4) Setting Up the Tmp Dir
mkdir /home/username/tmp
TMPDIR="/home/username/tmp"
export TMPDIR="/home/username/tmp"
chmod 777 /home/username/tmp
(where username is the name of your ssh folder) - You can find this out with the command pwd )
4a) cd /home/username
5) svn checkout svn://svn.mplayerhq.hu/ffmpeg/trunk ffmpeg && cd ffmpeg
6) Lame Installation ( Inside FFmpeg dir)
wget http://mesh.dl.sourceforge.net/sourceforge/lame/lame-3.97.tar.gz
7) tar -zxvf lame-3.97.tar.gz && cd lame*
8) Commands to compile Lame
./configure --prefix=/home/username/ffmpeg/lame --disable-shared
9)
make
10) make install
11) cd ..
12) FFmpeg Installation
./configure --prefix=/home/username/ffmpeg --cross-compile --disable-shared --enable-libmp3lame --extra-cflags=-I/home/username/ffmpeg/lame/include --extra-ldflags=-L/home/username/ffmpeg/lame/lib
13) make
14)
make install
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This installation requires a bit more testing on Dreamhost Hosting but should work